You Suck"
- Johnny Hawkins
- Jan 10
- 1 min read
Not exactly the battle cry you'd expect from an inspirational movie or what you'd hope to hear before a big game. But when you understand the meaning behind these words, it might just change your perspective.
Riley Leonard, Notre Dame’s starting quarterback and recent Orange Bowl champion, revealed in an ESPN interview that his mom texts him “You Suck” before every game. Why? As he puts it, “I needed someone to tell me I suck every once in a while, to give me some motivation.”
It started in high school when others were praising him, and he needed a voice to keep him grounded. His mom wasn’t tearing him down—she was giving him the edge to stay humble, hungry, and focused.
As an executive coach, I often discuss the importance of positive self-talk. But Riley’s story highlights something equally powerful: the value of an inner "drill sergeant." While we all need an inner "cheerleader" to lift us up, the drill sergeant keeps us real, challenges us to push harder, and ensures we don’t settle for comfort. This voice pushes us out of our comfort zone, keeps our egos in check, and drives growth.
Riley’s mom is quick to clarify the fullness of the text, “I’m also kinda telling him that I love you and I’m behind you.” A perfect mix of keeping it real and unwavering support.
Congrats, Riley, on the Orange Bowl win—and how you live out your faith!
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